Wednesday, July 20, 2011
Thursday, July 1, 2010
July 1, 2010 - Is God Listening to me?
Have you ever asked God for something in your life and there are times it would appear that He is not listening; and we often get discouraged. One thing I have realized is that life is a process. We live and by going through the process we should be learning new things to guide us along on our continued path. Many of the new schema's we learn are through hardships of articulated expressions of struggles. Irregardless of how they are obtained, the point is they are learned. They should be valued and added to our repertoire of life lessons. So I say to you...continue to forge ahead for oftentimes when we think the Master is not listening; and as we continue our walk, that is when we truly learn that He was listening all the time.
Seek to know that you might grow...
Go in peace...and blessings!
B
Seek to know that you might grow...
Go in peace...and blessings!
B
Wednesday, March 24, 2010
TLDM© Do you know what vehicle you are driving and what you can handle? Upgrade to that POWER CAR!
I come from a male dominated car driving family. The men in my life when I was growing up just loved cars. One grandfather (Oliver) was an Oldsmobile man until he discovered Honda and then the Acura. While the other grandfather (Gooding) was a Caddy man. Then there is my father who drove Chrysler's, Oldsmobile's, Chevrolet's and even a RV back in the day. So I grew up riding in all types of vehicles, while learning to listen for knocks and noises that were not necessarily normal to the wear and tear of the vehicle. To this day I have a fine tuned ear when it comes to cars.
Now I learned to drive on my grandfather's (Gooding) brown leather interior Caddy. He loved the car and I must admit it was sweet. It was smooth to cruise in, a fully loaded automatic dream ride. The other car I learned to drive in was my brother's Datsun. A little stick shift; that I frequently ground the gears on. To this day I doubt if I've told my brother about grinding those gears...LOL! By the time I got my first car which my grandfather (Oliver) helped me buy..it was a little red Toyota...I was becoming the expert at stick shifts and their mobility. The Toyota had no power steering and I could maneuver those gears like nobody's business. I even learned to down shift and slow down without ever touching my brake. In fact the weekend I got my car I took off to Boston all my myself..I figured if I could master this hill in our local garage near Macy's I could master a three hour ride from CT to Boston.
To this day I have driven all types of vehicles, but have owned the 760 Volvo (Turbo) and Wagon, Ford Explorer, Toyota, Land Rover Discovery (II), BMW (5 series), and Nissan Maxima (SE). Mind you each of these vehicles were unique in comparison to the other vehicle. The Max was driven off the show room floor with about 26 miles on it; it was pearly white and had mad shine that was luminescent in the sun. I fell in love with that car and when I had to give it up, it was a lease I went through Maxima withdrawal..LOL! I was forever burning rubber just to prove a point at the light that I got mad speed behind my game and I was a woman to boot that could rock a stick shift...LOL! Whereas, the Land Rover, I had to maneuver that baby gently..she was not good at taking sharp turns and burned a hole in my budget just for gasoline. She only got 300 miles to a gallon and took $80 to fill her up. Yet she was a beaut in regards to space. Now my favorite of all time was my Beemer...she took hair pin turns easily at speeds above 60 or 70 and had mad speed game that passed the Max on every level of performance. I noticed the difference almost immediately even though she was an automatic rather than a stick shift.
Each of my cars I would admire the beauty of their sexy lines, their color, the curves of the body. Each held a different fascination based upon the power of the engine. Whether it was 5, 6 or 8 cylinder. I have even driven putt putts. While going through life changes and a divorce, I had one car that when it rained, the puddles would accumulate on the floor boards. The other was an old UI (Electric Company) car with the insignia scraped off. Those two vehicles were a lesson in pride from God. He provided for me, but it wasn't what I expected, but through that process I learned to be humble and accept what He had placed before me. The lines weren't beautiful nor sexy on these two vehicles, but they got me to where I had to go and I learned to love them just as they were. It was always the thought process, I will not remain with this vehicle but will have an upgrade. Lesson learned!
I'm comparing cars because so many of us can relate to vehicles in a natural sense. We have an affinity for them and its just not about their ability to carrying us from one location to the next. Most of us are dependent upon them for work, school and our daily lives; and we all understand that in spite of their beauty (luxury) or deformities/defects (putt putts) there are certain priorities that must be addressed to release the power within the vehicle whether it is a tiny engine or a one that can surpass every car and leave a dust cloud of proof in its wake.
Ladies I must bring the vehicle connation to point...we as women hold so much power in relationships - - I keep stressing this because there must come a time when a transition and shift must began to occur if our families, relationships and communities are going to survive. We can not continue to tear at our own selves, covering and each other and expect our lives to manifest healthy components - change must occur. It is not without note that men hold responsibility to...each party must meet its own God given mandate. Yet woman were created as the helpmeet...one that meets the help(s).
Most of us love to drive power cars, but not putting the key in the ignition will not give you all the potential power of the vehicle. We are too caught up admiring the beauty of the vehicle..the color..the sexy lines..the curves of it's body but fail to understand the power is within the engine (spirit man) and it needs to be started to work..we're on the outside looking at it rather than sitting in the driver's seat...the plush leather seats..that hold you etc..which makes for an awesome driving experience. However, those seats even if heated will keep you warm, but will not produce anything else but heat and eventually we all tire of heat - particularly if it is 80 degrees outside. We must understand that the power is in the engine (spirit man) not in the chassis (physical man). Hence, we must get in the vehicle to learn of it's power. Such as it is in relationships; work is involved and we must have engagement of the minds and spirit.
If you've never driven anything but a 4 or 6 cylinder engine then you have no clue to what the power of a 8 cylinder can hold. You've been driving putt putts but desire a bigger and better car. Yet if you don't take care of that putt putt, your behavior will more than likely remain the same when you get the larger car. You won't realize that the dash board states 160 and because you are used to doing only 80 your foot will not surpass that 80 mark unless you get a jolt of realization that I'm driving a different car. This is the same with the men in our lives. No two are the same. The one that hurt you last year doesn't mean that the new one is going to do the same. So often we carry that comparison and bitterness in our spirit and relate all our experiences the same. If you can only handle the putt putt..then deal with the putt putt until you can do better; but make that step up vehicle a goal in the back of your mind. This just basically translates to internal visions and goals of your life of things you want ...and often things that God wants you to have. At that same time..learn to place boundaries in your life of what you will and will not do. Respect yourself first and then respect others; and know that deliverance is a process...and looking ahead often allows you to obtain that deliverance and that desired goal.
Ladies you do have the ability and power and understanding to up build our men and our communities. I realize that many have been hurt countless times and many have lost faith even if we are not willing to admit it. The healing must take place to reach to others. Queens daughters excel above the rest. We were designed to give and show love in spite of our tests and trials and sometimes inconceivable situations; whether they were brought on by generational curses and or situations or doors we opened on our own, God is still a healer and deliverer and there is no sorrow He can not fix. We do have the right and ability to repair breaches and gaps in our lives and the lives of our men, but it will not be done with bitterness. The word tells us that power of life and death is in our tongues (Proverbs 18:21); and psychology tells us self-fulfilling prophecies do come true, which is only an indication of God's word; and check this out...as you give to others you might just find out that that putt putt has now become the power car of your dreams.
Seek to know that you might grow.
Now I learned to drive on my grandfather's (Gooding) brown leather interior Caddy. He loved the car and I must admit it was sweet. It was smooth to cruise in, a fully loaded automatic dream ride. The other car I learned to drive in was my brother's Datsun. A little stick shift; that I frequently ground the gears on. To this day I doubt if I've told my brother about grinding those gears...LOL! By the time I got my first car which my grandfather (Oliver) helped me buy..it was a little red Toyota...I was becoming the expert at stick shifts and their mobility. The Toyota had no power steering and I could maneuver those gears like nobody's business. I even learned to down shift and slow down without ever touching my brake. In fact the weekend I got my car I took off to Boston all my myself..I figured if I could master this hill in our local garage near Macy's I could master a three hour ride from CT to Boston.
To this day I have driven all types of vehicles, but have owned the 760 Volvo (Turbo) and Wagon, Ford Explorer, Toyota, Land Rover Discovery (II), BMW (5 series), and Nissan Maxima (SE). Mind you each of these vehicles were unique in comparison to the other vehicle. The Max was driven off the show room floor with about 26 miles on it; it was pearly white and had mad shine that was luminescent in the sun. I fell in love with that car and when I had to give it up, it was a lease I went through Maxima withdrawal..LOL! I was forever burning rubber just to prove a point at the light that I got mad speed behind my game and I was a woman to boot that could rock a stick shift...LOL! Whereas, the Land Rover, I had to maneuver that baby gently..she was not good at taking sharp turns and burned a hole in my budget just for gasoline. She only got 300 miles to a gallon and took $80 to fill her up. Yet she was a beaut in regards to space. Now my favorite of all time was my Beemer...she took hair pin turns easily at speeds above 60 or 70 and had mad speed game that passed the Max on every level of performance. I noticed the difference almost immediately even though she was an automatic rather than a stick shift.
Each of my cars I would admire the beauty of their sexy lines, their color, the curves of the body. Each held a different fascination based upon the power of the engine. Whether it was 5, 6 or 8 cylinder. I have even driven putt putts. While going through life changes and a divorce, I had one car that when it rained, the puddles would accumulate on the floor boards. The other was an old UI (Electric Company) car with the insignia scraped off. Those two vehicles were a lesson in pride from God. He provided for me, but it wasn't what I expected, but through that process I learned to be humble and accept what He had placed before me. The lines weren't beautiful nor sexy on these two vehicles, but they got me to where I had to go and I learned to love them just as they were. It was always the thought process, I will not remain with this vehicle but will have an upgrade. Lesson learned!
I'm comparing cars because so many of us can relate to vehicles in a natural sense. We have an affinity for them and its just not about their ability to carrying us from one location to the next. Most of us are dependent upon them for work, school and our daily lives; and we all understand that in spite of their beauty (luxury) or deformities/defects (putt putts) there are certain priorities that must be addressed to release the power within the vehicle whether it is a tiny engine or a one that can surpass every car and leave a dust cloud of proof in its wake.
Ladies I must bring the vehicle connation to point...we as women hold so much power in relationships - - I keep stressing this because there must come a time when a transition and shift must began to occur if our families, relationships and communities are going to survive. We can not continue to tear at our own selves, covering and each other and expect our lives to manifest healthy components - change must occur. It is not without note that men hold responsibility to...each party must meet its own God given mandate. Yet woman were created as the helpmeet...one that meets the help(s).
Most of us love to drive power cars, but not putting the key in the ignition will not give you all the potential power of the vehicle. We are too caught up admiring the beauty of the vehicle..the color..the sexy lines..the curves of it's body but fail to understand the power is within the engine (spirit man) and it needs to be started to work..we're on the outside looking at it rather than sitting in the driver's seat...the plush leather seats..that hold you etc..which makes for an awesome driving experience. However, those seats even if heated will keep you warm, but will not produce anything else but heat and eventually we all tire of heat - particularly if it is 80 degrees outside. We must understand that the power is in the engine (spirit man) not in the chassis (physical man). Hence, we must get in the vehicle to learn of it's power. Such as it is in relationships; work is involved and we must have engagement of the minds and spirit.
If you've never driven anything but a 4 or 6 cylinder engine then you have no clue to what the power of a 8 cylinder can hold. You've been driving putt putts but desire a bigger and better car. Yet if you don't take care of that putt putt, your behavior will more than likely remain the same when you get the larger car. You won't realize that the dash board states 160 and because you are used to doing only 80 your foot will not surpass that 80 mark unless you get a jolt of realization that I'm driving a different car. This is the same with the men in our lives. No two are the same. The one that hurt you last year doesn't mean that the new one is going to do the same. So often we carry that comparison and bitterness in our spirit and relate all our experiences the same. If you can only handle the putt putt..then deal with the putt putt until you can do better; but make that step up vehicle a goal in the back of your mind. This just basically translates to internal visions and goals of your life of things you want ...and often things that God wants you to have. At that same time..learn to place boundaries in your life of what you will and will not do. Respect yourself first and then respect others; and know that deliverance is a process...and looking ahead often allows you to obtain that deliverance and that desired goal.
Ladies you do have the ability and power and understanding to up build our men and our communities. I realize that many have been hurt countless times and many have lost faith even if we are not willing to admit it. The healing must take place to reach to others. Queens daughters excel above the rest. We were designed to give and show love in spite of our tests and trials and sometimes inconceivable situations; whether they were brought on by generational curses and or situations or doors we opened on our own, God is still a healer and deliverer and there is no sorrow He can not fix. We do have the right and ability to repair breaches and gaps in our lives and the lives of our men, but it will not be done with bitterness. The word tells us that power of life and death is in our tongues (Proverbs 18:21); and psychology tells us self-fulfilling prophecies do come true, which is only an indication of God's word; and check this out...as you give to others you might just find out that that putt putt has now become the power car of your dreams.
Seek to know that you might grow.
Saturday, March 13, 2010
HOW TO LOVE YOUR BLACK WOMAN RIGHT....TEACHING LESSONS DEFINING MOMENTS ©
How to Love your Black Women Right...some may need to be rescued because they were never validated as women by their fathers or father figure..in fact some had NO fathers....QB
How to Love your Black Woman....love her past her fears and insecurities..QB
How to Love your Black Woman....Tell her you love her for her...QB
How to Love your Black Woman....Tell her you want her for her
How to Love your Black Woman....Tell her she's beautiful
How to Love your Black Woman.....Don't compare her to other women in your life...be they your mother's, sisters or friends...QB
How to Love your Black Woman....Remember what attracted you to her in the first place...build upon that
How to Love your Black Woman....Pray for her and her release....QB
How to Love your Black Woman....Remember she's a treasure and a gift
How to Love your Black Woman....Remember no man is an island and what you do DOES AFFECT AND EFFECT the world around you.
How to Love your Black Woman....Stand up and be a man..MAN UP!
How to Love your Black Woman....Be HER HERO!
How to Love your Black Woman....Tell her what you expect and want out of her...that way there is no mis-communication
How to Love your Black Woman....Talk to her
How to Love your Black Woman....Show her affection
How to Love your Black Woman....Remember she has fears still left over from slavery days that are built into her psyche
How to Love your Black Woman....Remember she is under the curse from Eve and needs you...QB
How to Love your Black Woman....love her past her pain but remember you are NOT her savior...God is...QB
How to Love your Black Woman....be the man God destined you to be...QB
How to Love your Black Woman....surprise her
How to Love your Black Woman....learn her love language
How to Love your Black Woman....don't allow your fear of not meeting her expectations to cripple you...tip..God knows her even better than you do...ask Him!
How to Love your Black Woman....be a God-fearing Man! ....nothing more attractive than a Man of God walking in His calling and making change...I'm just sayin...lol...QB
MARCH 12, 2010
JIREH'S PROMISE
COPYRIGHT 2010
PLEASE DO NOT REPOST OR COPY ANY PARTS WITHIN WITHOUT PERMISSION
How to Love your Black Woman....love her past her fears and insecurities..QB
How to Love your Black Woman....Tell her you love her for her...QB
How to Love your Black Woman....Tell her you want her for her
How to Love your Black Woman....Tell her she's beautiful
How to Love your Black Woman.....Don't compare her to other women in your life...be they your mother's, sisters or friends...QB
How to Love your Black Woman....Remember what attracted you to her in the first place...build upon that
How to Love your Black Woman....Pray for her and her release....QB
How to Love your Black Woman....Remember she's a treasure and a gift
How to Love your Black Woman....Remember no man is an island and what you do DOES AFFECT AND EFFECT the world around you.
How to Love your Black Woman....Stand up and be a man..MAN UP!
How to Love your Black Woman....Be HER HERO!
How to Love your Black Woman....Tell her what you expect and want out of her...that way there is no mis-communication
How to Love your Black Woman....Talk to her
How to Love your Black Woman....Show her affection
How to Love your Black Woman....Remember she has fears still left over from slavery days that are built into her psyche
How to Love your Black Woman....Remember she is under the curse from Eve and needs you...QB
How to Love your Black Woman....love her past her pain but remember you are NOT her savior...God is...QB
How to Love your Black Woman....be the man God destined you to be...QB
How to Love your Black Woman....surprise her
How to Love your Black Woman....learn her love language
How to Love your Black Woman....don't allow your fear of not meeting her expectations to cripple you...tip..God knows her even better than you do...ask Him!
How to Love your Black Woman....be a God-fearing Man! ....nothing more attractive than a Man of God walking in His calling and making change...I'm just sayin...lol...QB
MARCH 12, 2010
JIREH'S PROMISE
COPYRIGHT 2010
PLEASE DO NOT REPOST OR COPY ANY PARTS WITHIN WITHOUT PERMISSION
Thursday, March 11, 2010
HOW TO LOVE YOUR BLACK MAN....TEACHING LESSONS DEFINING MOMENTS
Our men take a hit on a regular basis surrounding their egos..SO HERE ARE SOME TIPS TO LOVE A BLACK MAN...
Ladies...black men battle all day everyday with things we are not even aware of...so let's be patient with them...QB
How to love your black man...STOP BEING A DRAMA QUEEN!
How to love your black man... finish the argument and be done with it...i.e. don't keep bringing it up..self-fulfilling prophecies do come true...QB
How to love your black man.....don't make him guess what's going through your head..QB
How to love your black man.... be funny...QB
How to love your black man....don't take forever to say what you need to say...state your cause first...QB
How to love your black man....let him be your hero!...QB
How to love your black man......ask him first what he thinks before you run to your girls...just don't get mad about the answer...QB
How to love your black man....learn to trust him UNTIL YOU SEE SOMETHING DIFFERENT...QB
How to love your black man.....give them the bottom line..they are fixers...too much detail clogs their brains..lol..QB
How to love your black man....brag on him in front of other people..build the dude up..that's all I'm saying...QB
How to love your black man...tip...STOP BEING A DRAMA QUEEN!
You can not control every person and situation around you...hmm..you might need some single time before you can come out and play
How to love your black man...tip...STOP BEING A DRAMA QUEEN! Stop bringing up old issues, unless they are relative to the present issue meaning the situation hasn't change, for example i.e. cheating - - but otherwise..be done with it..only succeeds in making you live in the past rather than the present..and this means healing is needed..QB
How to love your black man....RESPECT YOURSELF FIRST! THEN RESPECT HIM! QB
How to love your black man....keep your personal life private..don't blast him to your girls....QB
How to love your black man...tell him your problem....he'll find a solution for you...he's linear in thinking..straight to the point...just accept it when the solution comes...QB
How to love your black man....you can't fix his problems but can love and support him and more importantly you can pray for him to find his solution....QB
How to love your black man....pray for him...QB
How to love your black man....try not to pick his brain all the time...he'll talk when he's ready...QB
How to love your black man....just know that some stuff he's not going to share right away...let him come to you but give him space to brood muddle through his problem(s)...QB
How to love your black man...when he feels safe...when he trusts you...he'll give you his heart...QB
How to love a black man...don't make prejudgments about him nor his situation..now if it pops up well then that's a different matter...then work through the problem in L.O.V.E.....QB
How to love your black man...Don't be a busybody...don't pry..don't go through his cell..mail..etc...IF YOU PRAY GOD WILL REVEAL THE SITUATION ANYWAY....QB
How to love your black man....don't be his momma...be his mate.....QB
How to love your black man....set your boundaries...QB
How to love your black man.....don't say one thing and do another...for God's sake be consistent....QB
How to love your black man.....say how it made you feel without accusing/accusation...QB
How to love your black man....don't start a conversation with "You"....it puts him on the defense...USE words like this is how I felt when you....etc....QB
How to love your black man....don't blast him in public..wait until you get home...QB
How to love your black man....take ownership when you are wrong....QB
How to love your black man....be feminine...you're not in competition with him....QB
How to love your black man......don't go after him because of what he has but who he is....love him for him...QB
How to love your black man....realize he is NOT your savior...God is....QB
How to love your black man....KNOW that YOU can't CHANGE HIM!!
How to love your black man....don't withhold from your husband because you are mad....QB
How to love your black man.....don't compare him to previous men in your life....QB
How to love your black man.....learn not to speak death into his life but life....QB
How to Love your Black man....surprise him
How to Love your Black man....learn his love language
How to Love your Black man....don't allow your fear of not meeting his expectations to cripple you...tip..God knows him even better than you do...ask Him!
How to love your black man....make sure he is who you want...for love is patient, kind...long suffering and the path of love is not always easy...QB
Teaching Lessons...Defining Moments© Just because he doesn't think like you and act the way you believe he should does not make him wrong...life is hard enough for him to begin with without you making judgments...learn to build up and not tear down...choose to assist quietly, demurely but in love.. a women with a quiet spirit is more affective and effective than a controlling one.....QB
Ladies...you can not fix a man's problem, that is something he must come to an accord/understanding on his own..however, you can stand in love and in patience....lend a listening ear...and learn to build up...not tear down...feed his ego and more so learn to show L.O.V.E....QB
Ladies when is the last time you told your guy you believed in Him?? Try it sometime...you might be surprised by the reaction for he longs to fight battles for you..just give him a chance....QB
Learn to love the black man..he is NOT our enemy...but we must learn to assist in building and assisting...Ladies...you do hold power..just choose NOT to give it away by giving up the cookies...being controlling...expecting what you are NOT willing to give...QB
Ladies when is the last time you built up a black men in your circle? Is he comfortable enough to share with you...laugh with you..cry with you? So many times we (as women) have barriers in place that keep them at bay...I'm just saying/sharing...reassess your treatment of them and learn to build up..not tear down...www.showsumlove....QB
Teaching Lessons...Defining Moments© Love is NOT your ability to control a situation...love is what it is..showing kindness..support...initiative...patient...kind....
selfless...you can not say you love and demand control...just sayin/sharing...QB
A man will not stay in a relationship where there is no respect...notice I said a "MAN"...a "real man"...to him respect is L.O.V.E...What respect gear are you in with your love?...GAME ON! QB
MARCH 11, 2010
JIREH'S PROMISE
COPYRIGHT 2010
PLEASE DO NOT REPOST OR COPY ANY PARTS WITHIN WITHOUT PERMISSION
Ladies...black men battle all day everyday with things we are not even aware of...so let's be patient with them...QB
How to love your black man...STOP BEING A DRAMA QUEEN!
How to love your black man... finish the argument and be done with it...i.e. don't keep bringing it up..self-fulfilling prophecies do come true...QB
How to love your black man.....don't make him guess what's going through your head..QB
How to love your black man.... be funny...QB
How to love your black man....don't take forever to say what you need to say...state your cause first...QB
How to love your black man....let him be your hero!...QB
How to love your black man......ask him first what he thinks before you run to your girls...just don't get mad about the answer...QB
How to love your black man....learn to trust him UNTIL YOU SEE SOMETHING DIFFERENT...QB
How to love your black man.....give them the bottom line..they are fixers...too much detail clogs their brains..lol..QB
How to love your black man....brag on him in front of other people..build the dude up..that's all I'm saying...QB
How to love your black man...tip...STOP BEING A DRAMA QUEEN!
You can not control every person and situation around you...hmm..you might need some single time before you can come out and play
How to love your black man...tip...STOP BEING A DRAMA QUEEN! Stop bringing up old issues, unless they are relative to the present issue meaning the situation hasn't change, for example i.e. cheating - - but otherwise..be done with it..only succeeds in making you live in the past rather than the present..and this means healing is needed..QB
How to love your black man....RESPECT YOURSELF FIRST! THEN RESPECT HIM! QB
How to love your black man....keep your personal life private..don't blast him to your girls....QB
How to love your black man...tell him your problem....he'll find a solution for you...he's linear in thinking..straight to the point...just accept it when the solution comes...QB
How to love your black man....you can't fix his problems but can love and support him and more importantly you can pray for him to find his solution....QB
How to love your black man....pray for him...QB
How to love your black man....try not to pick his brain all the time...he'll talk when he's ready...QB
How to love your black man....just know that some stuff he's not going to share right away...let him come to you but give him space to brood muddle through his problem(s)...QB
How to love your black man...when he feels safe...when he trusts you...he'll give you his heart...QB
How to love a black man...don't make prejudgments about him nor his situation..now if it pops up well then that's a different matter...then work through the problem in L.O.V.E.....QB
How to love your black man...Don't be a busybody...don't pry..don't go through his cell..mail..etc...IF YOU PRAY GOD WILL REVEAL THE SITUATION ANYWAY....QB
How to love your black man....don't be his momma...be his mate.....QB
How to love your black man....set your boundaries...QB
How to love your black man.....don't say one thing and do another...for God's sake be consistent....QB
How to love your black man.....say how it made you feel without accusing/accusation...QB
How to love your black man....don't start a conversation with "You"....it puts him on the defense...USE words like this is how I felt when you....etc....QB
How to love your black man....don't blast him in public..wait until you get home...QB
How to love your black man....take ownership when you are wrong....QB
How to love your black man....be feminine...you're not in competition with him....QB
How to love your black man......don't go after him because of what he has but who he is....love him for him...QB
How to love your black man....realize he is NOT your savior...God is....QB
How to love your black man....KNOW that YOU can't CHANGE HIM!!
How to love your black man....don't withhold from your husband because you are mad....QB
How to love your black man.....don't compare him to previous men in your life....QB
How to love your black man.....learn not to speak death into his life but life....QB
How to Love your Black man....surprise him
How to Love your Black man....learn his love language
How to Love your Black man....don't allow your fear of not meeting his expectations to cripple you...tip..God knows him even better than you do...ask Him!
How to love your black man....make sure he is who you want...for love is patient, kind...long suffering and the path of love is not always easy...QB
Teaching Lessons...Defining Moments© Just because he doesn't think like you and act the way you believe he should does not make him wrong...life is hard enough for him to begin with without you making judgments...learn to build up and not tear down...choose to assist quietly, demurely but in love.. a women with a quiet spirit is more affective and effective than a controlling one.....QB
Ladies...you can not fix a man's problem, that is something he must come to an accord/understanding on his own..however, you can stand in love and in patience....lend a listening ear...and learn to build up...not tear down...feed his ego and more so learn to show L.O.V.E....QB
Ladies when is the last time you told your guy you believed in Him?? Try it sometime...you might be surprised by the reaction for he longs to fight battles for you..just give him a chance....QB
Learn to love the black man..he is NOT our enemy...but we must learn to assist in building and assisting...Ladies...you do hold power..just choose NOT to give it away by giving up the cookies...being controlling...expecting what you are NOT willing to give...QB
Ladies when is the last time you built up a black men in your circle? Is he comfortable enough to share with you...laugh with you..cry with you? So many times we (as women) have barriers in place that keep them at bay...I'm just saying/sharing...reassess your treatment of them and learn to build up..not tear down...www.showsumlove....QB
Teaching Lessons...Defining Moments© Love is NOT your ability to control a situation...love is what it is..showing kindness..support...initiative...patient...kind....
selfless...you can not say you love and demand control...just sayin/sharing...QB
A man will not stay in a relationship where there is no respect...notice I said a "MAN"...a "real man"...to him respect is L.O.V.E...What respect gear are you in with your love?...GAME ON! QB
MARCH 11, 2010
JIREH'S PROMISE
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Monday, March 8, 2010
L.O.V.E and Movement
Teaching Lessons...Defining Moments© L.O.V.E. is PROGRESSION IN MOTION..QB
Jireh’s Promise
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Break the Cycle
This is not your typical Valentine's Message...but God is speaking today...He is the author of Love..who better to give such a word...a word because He cares....a word because He wants each of us to live to our fullest potential in Him...a word that is life changing..and that Word is Him..manifested in His Son - Jesus Christ who died that all might be pulled out of sin.
There are so many isms and schisms in our bodies…needless to say that is not what is on my heart today. Women of God, and those who call themselves such…it’s time to break some cycles. Those of you who are hurting and pull others into your abyss of madness need to stop and break the cycle. The more I minister and counsel the more I come across women/young ladies who have been abused by other women. THIS NEEDS TO STOP! IT MUST STOP! All I say is in love, but if you’re jacked up…get some deliverance…get counseling. ..get the help you need. You inflict pain and spiritual components on someone else--who then in turn continues the madness. God is about to call each of you out who stand in this position. There are those of us who have been in your shoes but refused to perpetrate the cycle and abuse. It is not right in God’s eyes and His judgment will be dealt with you differently than those who you have abused.
Women are nurturers and so it is easy for us to turn to each other for guidance, assistance; for love. But God is not pleased; and I’m speaking to those who KNOW better. The word tells us that a person who knows to do right and doesn’t do it..to HER it is a sin. There are those who stand in the gap for others and know how to bring the manifestation of deliverance – it is such time. Our young women struggle and we wonder why…many of you have played a hand in it – and God will such judge. For those who want deliverance…God is truly able and stands waiting for you. It’s time to break the cycle and live accordingly…by His Master Design and Plan.
I am praying for you.
B
2/14/2010
There are so many isms and schisms in our bodies…needless to say that is not what is on my heart today. Women of God, and those who call themselves such…it’s time to break some cycles. Those of you who are hurting and pull others into your abyss of madness need to stop and break the cycle. The more I minister and counsel the more I come across women/young ladies who have been abused by other women. THIS NEEDS TO STOP! IT MUST STOP! All I say is in love, but if you’re jacked up…get some deliverance…get counseling. ..get the help you need. You inflict pain and spiritual components on someone else--who then in turn continues the madness. God is about to call each of you out who stand in this position. There are those of us who have been in your shoes but refused to perpetrate the cycle and abuse. It is not right in God’s eyes and His judgment will be dealt with you differently than those who you have abused.
Women are nurturers and so it is easy for us to turn to each other for guidance, assistance; for love. But God is not pleased; and I’m speaking to those who KNOW better. The word tells us that a person who knows to do right and doesn’t do it..to HER it is a sin. There are those who stand in the gap for others and know how to bring the manifestation of deliverance – it is such time. Our young women struggle and we wonder why…many of you have played a hand in it – and God will such judge. For those who want deliverance…God is truly able and stands waiting for you. It’s time to break the cycle and live accordingly…by His Master Design and Plan.
I am praying for you.
B
2/14/2010
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