Our men take a hit on a regular basis surrounding their egos..SO HERE ARE SOME TIPS TO LOVE A BLACK MAN...
Ladies...black men battle all day everyday with things we are not even aware of...so let's be patient with them...QB
How to love your black man...STOP BEING A DRAMA QUEEN!
How to love your black man... finish the argument and be done with it...i.e. don't keep bringing it up..self-fulfilling prophecies do come true...QB
How to love your black man.....don't make him guess what's going through your head..QB
How to love your black man.... be funny...QB
How to love your black man....don't take forever to say what you need to say...state your cause first...QB
How to love your black man....let him be your hero!...QB
How to love your black man......ask him first what he thinks before you run to your girls...just don't get mad about the answer...QB
How to love your black man....learn to trust him UNTIL YOU SEE SOMETHING DIFFERENT...QB
How to love your black man.....give them the bottom line..they are fixers...too much detail clogs their brains..lol..QB
How to love your black man....brag on him in front of other people..build the dude up..that's all I'm saying...QB
How to love your black man...tip...STOP BEING A DRAMA QUEEN!
You can not control every person and situation around you...hmm..you might need some single time before you can come out and play
How to love your black man...tip...STOP BEING A DRAMA QUEEN! Stop bringing up old issues, unless they are relative to the present issue meaning the situation hasn't change, for example i.e. cheating - - but otherwise..be done with it..only succeeds in making you live in the past rather than the present..and this means healing is needed..QB
How to love your black man....RESPECT YOURSELF FIRST! THEN RESPECT HIM! QB
How to love your black man....keep your personal life private..don't blast him to your girls....QB
How to love your black man...tell him your problem....he'll find a solution for you...he's linear in thinking..straight to the point...just accept it when the solution comes...QB
How to love your black man....you can't fix his problems but can love and support him and more importantly you can pray for him to find his solution....QB
How to love your black man....pray for him...QB
How to love your black man....try not to pick his brain all the time...he'll talk when he's ready...QB
How to love your black man....just know that some stuff he's not going to share right away...let him come to you but give him space to brood muddle through his problem(s)...QB
How to love your black man...when he feels safe...when he trusts you...he'll give you his heart...QB
How to love a black man...don't make prejudgments about him nor his situation..now if it pops up well then that's a different matter...then work through the problem in L.O.V.E.....QB
How to love your black man...Don't be a busybody...don't pry..don't go through his cell..mail..etc...IF YOU PRAY GOD WILL REVEAL THE SITUATION ANYWAY....QB
How to love your black man....don't be his momma...be his mate.....QB
How to love your black man....set your boundaries...QB
How to love your black man.....don't say one thing and do another...for God's sake be consistent....QB
How to love your black man.....say how it made you feel without accusing/accusation...QB
How to love your black man....don't start a conversation with "You"....it puts him on the defense...USE words like this is how I felt when you....etc....QB
How to love your black man....don't blast him in public..wait until you get home...QB
How to love your black man....take ownership when you are wrong....QB
How to love your black man....be feminine...you're not in competition with him....QB
How to love your black man......don't go after him because of what he has but who he is....love him for him...QB
How to love your black man....realize he is NOT your savior...God is....QB
How to love your black man....KNOW that YOU can't CHANGE HIM!!
How to love your black man....don't withhold from your husband because you are mad....QB
How to love your black man.....don't compare him to previous men in your life....QB
How to love your black man.....learn not to speak death into his life but life....QB
How to Love your Black man....surprise him
How to Love your Black man....learn his love language
How to Love your Black man....don't allow your fear of not meeting his expectations to cripple you...tip..God knows him even better than you do...ask Him!
How to love your black man....make sure he is who you want...for love is patient, kind...long suffering and the path of love is not always easy...QB
Teaching Lessons...Defining Moments© Just because he doesn't think like you and act the way you believe he should does not make him wrong...life is hard enough for him to begin with without you making judgments...learn to build up and not tear down...choose to assist quietly, demurely but in love.. a women with a quiet spirit is more affective and effective than a controlling one.....QB
Ladies...you can not fix a man's problem, that is something he must come to an accord/understanding on his own..however, you can stand in love and in patience....lend a listening ear...and learn to build up...not tear down...feed his ego and more so learn to show L.O.V.E....QB
Ladies when is the last time you told your guy you believed in Him?? Try it sometime...you might be surprised by the reaction for he longs to fight battles for you..just give him a chance....QB
Learn to love the black man..he is NOT our enemy...but we must learn to assist in building and assisting...Ladies...you do hold power..just choose NOT to give it away by giving up the cookies...being controlling...expecting what you are NOT willing to give...QB
Ladies when is the last time you built up a black men in your circle? Is he comfortable enough to share with you...laugh with you..cry with you? So many times we (as women) have barriers in place that keep them at bay...I'm just saying/sharing...reassess your treatment of them and learn to build up..not tear down...www.showsumlove....QB
Teaching Lessons...Defining Moments© Love is NOT your ability to control a situation...love is what it is..showing kindness..support...initiative...patient...kind....
selfless...you can not say you love and demand control...just sayin/sharing...QB
A man will not stay in a relationship where there is no respect...notice I said a "MAN"...a "real man"...to him respect is L.O.V.E...What respect gear are you in with your love?...GAME ON! QB
MARCH 11, 2010
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